from an old friend who contacted me upon reading my post on SAHM:

The effort as a full time mum
will pay off when your kid grows up.
The difference between a stay at home mum vs a working mom
can be seen through the child.


In fact, there were many who messaged me privately to tell me their thoughts on this and encouraged me to go ahead with my decision. I guess this is an issue that will continue to plague mothers in Singapore, unless the government starts to do more to change the situation, rather than just talk. Hence for now, it’s up to us to decide how to manage according to our unique circumstances.

PS: Full-time Working Moms face a whole set of different issues, so it is just as tough for them.

PPS: There is no need to compare and compete to see who had it worse. 女人何苦为难女人?